The Strange Story of Frognall Dibdin
Forget architecture and design, today we have breaking news in the blogosphere. I've been holding this one in for months and am glad to finally get it off my chest:
Forget architecture and design, today we have breaking news in the blogosphere. I've been holding this one in for months and am glad to finally get it off my chest:
Many of you may remember Frognall Dibdin's Shelves, an erudite and often entertaining blog about books by a Boston book lover, which disappeared abruptly last summer. I've known a lot more than met the eye about this story for quite awhile but only this weekend did it become public and the myriad conflicting facts fall into place. It's a very long tale, with more twists than an Agatha Christie mystery. I'm not going into nearly all of it today, but here's a short version:
Last March, I received an email from a Harvard student address, from one Eric Jonathan Price. In it he paid elaborate and flattering compliment to this blog, and revealed himself to be the writer of Frognall Dibdin's Shelves. He signed the email with "my full name, 'Eric Rowe-Price". This hyphenated discrepancy intrigued me, for I had already noticed things in his blog posts that didn't add up either---a picture of his summer house in Maine for example, only the house pictured was one in New Canaan Connecticut that had been featured in Luxist a few months before. In the post he told his readers of how carefully he had been trying to restore the gardens to the original plans by Beatrix Farrand, originally created for his grandmother, and lovingly tended by the great aunt who had left him the house. Interesting. Beatrix Farrand's job records show no commissions at Prout's Neck, nor any for the Price family. Curiouser and curiouser. He further told of his late great aunt's loving care of the garden, and of her going out carelessly in her Chanel flats to tend her flowers. Whoa, here something went off in my brain: a ninety year old aunt of a certain class tending her garden in Maine in Chanel flats? Those are city shoes. She'd have gardened in Belgians, maybe, Keds more likely but the Chanels would be home in Boston, if she had them at all. Hmmmm.
'Wisteria Hill' in New Canaan Connecticut, featured by Eric on Frognall Dibdin as his summer home on Prout's Neck in Maine (Luxist photo)
Then, a few days later, I was invited to join his Facebook page. At first, my acceptance wouldn't work, so I emailed my regrets. I immediately received a reply that it was the result of his privacy settings, and to please try again. Having long since decided that he was a fabulist---so many stories on his blog of his aristocratic family's antics were either lifted from books such as Cleveland Amory's The Proper Bostonians and John Marquand's The Late George Apley, or just plain didn't ring true. The same with pictures. A photo of the library of Rotch and Tilden's William Mason House on Commonwealth Avenue, published in Bainbridge Bunting's Houses of Boston's Back Bay, for example, became his Price great-grandparent's library on Beacon St. Yet I still gave him benefit of the doubt---I kid you not. And then, curious, I opened his Facebook page. It was like looking into the sun---blinding, dizzying, stupefying.
The Facebook page was full, nay, crammed with scrapbook images and ideas that a twelve year old might come up with for how the jet set lived and played. He had created albums of 'family' houses, all lifted straight from real estate ads, some of them touchingly tagged with with labels like 'Eric's bedroom'. Party pictures from many sources pretended to be one party for his father's birthday. There were pictures and videos with friends on yachts and private jets. His resume would take one's breath away, let alone strain one's credibility---all the best boarding schools, Harvard, Oxford, Harvard graduate school; multiple degrees in everything imaginable, from art conservation to law. 'Eric Rowe-Price' had set himself up to be a renaissance man. The list goes on: Trustee of the T.Rowe Price Family Foundation (ain't no such foundation, kiddies). Special Attache for the State Dept. to Iraqi Ministry of Cultural Heritage. A modeling career with the Ford Agency (and he even posted a stock Ford Agency video from Youtube, supposedly showing him getting pedicured in the background). There were so many that I cannot remember them all. I admit it---I was spellbound. I had never seen such large scale make-believe. His Facebook page became one of my morning must-reads, just to see what that wily devil was up to today. Group photos had grand captions: 'Grandfather Price and friends and family at the house on Hedges Lane, East Hampton'. The tags on these photos were amazing when one ran a mouse over them---One photo included both 'Grandfather-Ambassador Charles Price' and 'Liliane de Bettancourt',(the embattled L'Oreal heiress), etc. It was all so amazing that I'd often need a jack to get my jaw off the floor. And of course, Ambassador Price, in this fiction Eric's proper Bostonian 'grandfather', was actually born in Kansas City and lives in California. As for 'Great Grandfather', T. Rowe Price himself (unhyphenated), he was actually a Baltimorean, and not the father of Charles Price. But Eric never let minor details like these interfere with his fantasy.
'Cragmere' made appearances on Facebook as 'Tangled Tide' at Prout's Neck, designed by Eric's famous architect 'ancestor' Bruce Price. In reality the house is in Cape Neddick, Maine, 40 miles south, and was designed by Antoine Dorticos. In his first Facebook posting, the house was in Cape Elizabeth, a suburb of Portland, but Eric apparently later realized that Prout's was the better summer address, and moved the whole kaboodle there.
Nevertheless, the artist formerly known as Eric Price continued on unaware. Knowing that he was claiming 22 Louisburg Square, as good an address as exists in Boston as his house, I put my researcher's skills to work and checked the Boston Assessor's records. I constantly wanted to give this scoundrel benefit of the doubt, why I don't know---probably because that someone could make up this much stuff, so easily debunked, so publicly, just didn't make sense. Of course, he was not the owner of 22 Louisburg, which incidentally belonged long ago to old friends of the Dilettante. Finally, a picture was posted by his 'brother' (more about the brother in a minute) of him sitting in a grand room, obviously and unmistakably in an English house, saying how amazing it was that Eric had filled his library in so short a time. That library was no more in that house than I am right now. I could stand it no more, and confess that I wrote him a disingenuous letter commenting what pleasure it gave me to see Kay and George's old library at 22 Louisburg, knowing full damn well that the room wasn't in that house. I hoped for his sake that this would produce a reply that he didn't live there, but of course, he overplayed his hand, and wrote back that I had such good eyes to recognize it, and yes, he adored the house, though not as much as 'Tangled Tide, my summer home in Maine', and intended this house to be the one he was carried out of feet first. Game set match. I decided this was not a good game that he was playing, regardless of motive, then still unclear, and we only once more had any correspondence, when he offered via Facebook to send me family snapshots of his great-grandfather Rockefeller's house at Seal Harbor for a blog post (needless to say, they never arrived).
Winslow Homer's studio at Prout's Neck, owned by the Portland Museum of Art, pictured in Facebook as the guest house at Tangled Tide. (Doug Jones, staff photo from Portland Press Herald)
So, now he was claiming outright what he had only implied before. That he was one of THE Rockefellers. The Pocantico branch. Not even clever enough to bury himself into the more difficult to trace genealogy of the Greenwich branch. Surely, so soon after the very public blow-up of the Clark Rockefeller scam, he wouldn't be claiming that---would he? Nobody could be that stupid. Wrong. Eric Rowe-Price could be. And eventually that would be his downfall. But I'm ahead of our story---two more paragraphs. He had something over 400 Facebook friends, though only a very few ever posted. My particular favorite was the kind woman who took pictures of 'his' Ogden Codman townhouse in New York (you thought 'Tangled Tide' and 22 Louisburg were the only ones?) for him, prompting his 'brother' to say how kind it was of Suzanne to take photos, and Aunt Helen to admire the job of having the front doors restored 'your father would be proud'. Of course the house pictured was neither his, nor by Ogden Codman. Aside from these rare postings from outsiders, 27 of those friends and relatives posted on his facebook page in rotation almost daily, always admiringly, even fawningly, and only about Eric. Another favorite was cousin C.S. Rockefeller saying that he never took his shirt off at the beach because he'd never have abs like Eric's. Their names, patrician to the core, evoked old line Boston and big money New York. Brother Thomas Rowe-Price IV, cousin Douglas Duck Forbes with his bride Alexandra Minot Rockefeller, cousin Eliot Handsyd Price (how he decided which Prices were hyphen-worthy, and which were not, beats me). his twin brother, whose name now eludes me--referred to as the 'spare for the heir', his best friend Gabriella Crowninshield, his aunt Ada Vanderbilt-Price, Malcolm Rockefeller (pay attention, you'll need to remember this one in a minute), Aunt Helen Price Saltonstall---the list goes on, as did their boundless admiration for their beloved 'Jonty'.
22 Louisburg Square, Boston. Claimed by Eric on Facebook as his own, a fact quickly refuted by a glance at Boston Assessor's records.
I finally told a couple of people about what I'd found, and that I was unsure what to do with the information. Little did I know that the story was about to get even more interesting. One morning, as I was giving the adventures of 'Jonty Rowe-Price' its daily glance right after the New York Times and before 'Old Long Island', Doonesbury or If The Lampshade Fits, I was looking at Aunt Helen Price Saltonstall's Facebook albums. In an album titled 'Misc. Family at Prout's Neck' (or some such), were photographs of "Malcolm's house". Except that it wasn't of a house at Prout's at all, but a house in Bridgehampton for sale by Daniel Gale realty (the New York Times real estate section is my friend). Following it was a picture captioned 'Watching old movies at Tangled Tide', of an empty , obviously staged, room with a too clear television picture. Within minutes, knowing by now his preferred sources, I'd identified it from a Sotheby's real estate ad for a house named Killybracken in Gloucester. It was my Hercule Poirot moment----'Mon dieu, aunt Helen is not real, he is writing her lines too!" And sure enough, within seconds, it became clear that the 27 friends and relatives and their profiles were ALL robots whose dialogue was controlled by the master puppeteer. Their friend lists only included each other, and absolutely no web search turned up any of them as real people in any way shape or manner. Nor did other avenues of research, including the Social Register, the very volume that should have bound them together. Except for Malcolm Rockefeller. There was one lone entry for him, a wedding registry entry online at an antique shop. I no longer found the story amusing or interesting. It had definitely gotten creepy, but I still paid attention, and what transpired over the next few weeks got very manic, and not a little confusing.
'Watching Old Movies at Tangled Tide, Prout's Neck' on 'Aunt Helen's' Facebook page, in reality 'Killybracken', for sale in Gloucester, MA, lifted again from the Sotheby's Real Estate site.
Eric had promoted a big birthday party, to be held either at 22 Louisburg Square, or at 'Tangled Tide, my summer home in Maine'. Naturally I wondered how he'd get out of this. He did so by giving himself Lymphoma, even posting pictures of his brain scan for his readers. He turned the blog over to his Aunt Helen, who though 88, carried on for her brave little soldier. Amazingly, her posts were exactly like his own, the same sort of picture posting, the same sorts of elegant family tales. My favorite was a tale of her late sister, she of the Chanel gardening pumps, and her old Maine cook Ora, who made the best blueberry scones, with ginger. At that, I'd had enough. One's old Maine cook may have made blueberry muffins, blueberry pie, or blueberry buckle, but the chances of an old Maine cook, even with a sophisticated employer, making blueberry scones with ginger fifty years ago were between slim and none. But I needn't have worried. Aunt Helen had served her usefulness, and was dispatched to Africa for a six month safari, and cousin Malcolm Rockefeller took over the blog for his ill cousin. This was an interesting development, for Malcolm, who had the same birthday as Eric, had been moving front and center also on the Facebook page, with a new profile. Malcolm carried on, giving us updates on Eric's fragile health, making trips up the Maine coast, visited booksellers, incluing a couple known personally to the Dilettante, and seemed much more a credible sort than 'Eric Rowe-Price'. That of course was all an illusion, for gentle reader, if you've come this far, I must tell you that not only is Malcolm not one bit more credible than Eric, in fact he IS Eric. But you'd already figured that out, hadn't you? The gig is up. He then foolishly overplayed his hand yet again, and accepted an invitation from some real Rockefellers who have a place in Camden, while there he stole some papers, and they cried foul. And now the police are looking for him.
For the rest of the story, here are links to articles in the Boston Globe and Wall Street Journal, and a Boston Fox news clip found by a friend cleverer than I during my search for the truth. And that, for the several of you who have asked if I know what happened to Frognall Dibdin over the last few months, is the rest, but not nearly all, of the story. I've kept it to myself and a few friends until now, because I didn't want to cause hurt or harm if any part of his wild tale was true. Events have unfolded in several arenas over the last couple of weeks, and now that the story is public, so is my take on it. I have dozens more details, and may share them later. I think you will very likely get a lively take on it from another quarter soon, but until I know for sure, I'm mum. "Oh, What a Tangled Web Tide We Weave, When First We Practice to Deceive"
For a more recent discovery and follow-up to this story, click this link to my next post:
For a more recent discovery and follow-up to this story, click this link to my next post:
Click these links for the news stories:
http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/articles/2011/01/07/another_phony_rockefeller_meet_eric_price/
http://www.myfoxboston.com/dpp/news/local/another-faux-rockfeller-emerges-in-maine-20110107
http://www.myfoxboston.com/dpp/news/local/another-faux-rockfeller-emerges-in-maine-20110107




48 comments:
Dilettante, what an amazing story! I wondered what had happened to that blog and had even asked another blogger if he knew what had happened when Frognall Dibden shut down. He said he'd heard Dibden was very ill but knew nothing more. Apparently they'd emailed each other but I don't know how often.
A tangled web, indeed.
Wow, that's quite the blog story! There are a lot of younger Rockefellers these days, but their ancestry is easily traced. And from what little I know, none would ever brag about the name. Clearly, he should have picked another family. But, all in all, it is a sad story.
You are most definitely my Maine man, Sir DED! I applaud your untangling this web of HISTORIC PROPORTIONS! I have had a few bump-ins in blog world where I found a few people were not who they seemed. My incidents were more in the pedestrian liars, manipulators, hideously ambitious with messianic visions of their importance. NOTHING like what you have found out and revealed. When's the mini series on?
Blue, as we see, the illness was just a device...
Devoted, it's a very sad story, and one wonders about the motivations, and needs that would drive him to it. Very sad waste of obvious talents.
Home, I'm so glad to finally be able to get this one out---it used up some psychic energy, wondering why anyone would do it. One always runs into poseurs, but this was epic.
Sounds like there is a the basis of a novel/movie there!
"Frognall Dibdin" sorta rings a bell, so maybe I read it once or twice. But how interesting to read your post, of Walter Mitty proportions. The "Social Network" indeed. Although I once used Facebook for a few months, I found it too tiresome for words, much like the little I've read of someone's Twitter. It does not surprise me that this fellow should exploit the system so much, and I suspect there are many others who do so with varying degrees, which makes me cynical about the whole caboodle. The emperor has no clothes.
Concrete, doesn't it just!
Columnist, I detest facebook, and consider it the end of civilization as we know it, and could expound for quite awhile on the subject---
It happens that what took me to facebook was being invited to his page. And as long as the bizarre concoction remained up, I visited. It was like a little online serial, waiting to see the next unbelievable plot twist. I've not been back to Facebook a dozen times since. We are as one on this.
Nice job of sleuthing, my friend. Facebook, by the way, is full of false identities. I was recently asked to friend Athena Onassis as I have more that 30 Facebook friends in common with her. When I checked her out I saw that she was a fulminating right-wing extremist of modest education and very adept at the "new American" colloquial. But what's amazing here is that so many of your own intelligent friends fall for this stuff, feeling special having such glamorous friends out there in the world.
This is riveting DED and an erudite piece of detective work. But I ask you - in the least vexatious way possible - does it matter? We now live in a world of slippery identity, the power of myth and all the rest of the postmodern bollocks I was going to call it; but actually it's not ***** as it holds a mirror up to the world now. If this was all fired up by Amazon to sell its books, then it would be a proper fraud. I love your word 'fabulist' and it's a great game to expose people like this. Aren't there other 'fabulists' in our blogosphere anyway?? All the same, you have given us a wonderful exposé which is of more value than the dross silly old Frognall had
any day. And a useful reminder to gullible people not to fall for everything they read.
I looked at his blog several times.
I remember being surprised that so many of his family houses were both grand and scrupulously maintained. (Because in any family there are going to be people who decide to live differently.) I was also amazed, and mildly envious, that so few of his relations seemed like misfits. (Cough.)
The other thing, though, the one that caused me to sit up straight with a shock, was "Aunt Helen." As Dilettante says, she sounded just like her nephew, and altogether "too modern." (But again, some mild form of envy whispered in my ear: "Why don't any of my elderly relations sound like Karen Blixen? Hmmmpf!")
Truly isn't this nothing but harmless and very amusing... and ultimately sad? Is it really so hard for any of you to acknowledge that there are those who imagine themselves as someone else? Todays Gatsby lives on Facebook, Blogspot and or ultimately as an Avatar-- how fun!
Shouldn't we be more interested in why this man revealed himself to DED (thats the real story) and or why he chose to play-out this particular character? A very creative mind indeed!
Gervais de Bedee--greetings, fellow (expatriate) Mainer. Indeed throughout history there have been people who have marvelously invented themselves---unfortunately, this guy's execution of his fraud was a little graceless. It is fascinating that people still get away with it in an age where information to the contrary is so easily available.
Rosie, see above. I'm all for re-invention when it's cleverly done and all for fun. Did I make up 'fabulist'? Oh dear. A little Sarah Palin seems to lurk in all of us. I must remember to go in for an exorcism.
Ancient: yes, yes, and yes.
Anonymous, did you read the news stories? Definitely I agree with you in general, the internet is a place where we can all be thin and rich and beautiful, and who hasn't thought of being George Clooney, but there was some malicious intent traveling alongside the sad aspirations here--in the end, definitely disturbing.
What a fascinating and disturbing story this is, thank you for bringing it to your readers' attention. I am sure there is even more to this story than any of us know at this point, but may well learn as further information comes to light.
For those of your readers who suggest this is all a harmless trifle, I draw your attention to the article in the Boston Globe that DED provides a link to. In it Erice Price/Frognall Dibdin is revealed to be a convicted embezzler, a perpetrator of fraud, a person who has stolen goods, adopted multiple identities, and is wanted by the police. That sounds to me like far more serious stuff than mere "fabulism."
TDED:
Sidebar: I was just looking at the Assessor's website. I'm in a state of shock. On one level, I know what's happened to real estate prices on Beacon Hill over the past forty years. But I still remember when that beautiful bowfront with the amethyst windows and front garden on Chestnut Street sold for a then-record $250,000. (Excuse me while I go take my morning medication...)
Anon above has it just right: The kid is a thief, plain and simple. If he'd been content to play some Edmund Backhouse of backwater WASPdom, he would have been harmless, and possibly amusing. But for whatever reason, he wanted somthing else out of it. Now he's probably going to jail.
Anonymous 5:13
Thank you for strongly making the point. In my narrative, I was trying to lead the reader from the first impression of harmless fun to the real darkness of the deed, but apparently not strongly enough.
Ancient, I once rented a floor through in a bow-front on Pinckney, in the block below Louisburg, handsome light filled rooms with handsome fireplaces (one imagines probably gutted by Hugh Newall Jacobsen by now), for a very reasonable sum. In those days it could be done. My circumstances in life are not significantly different now than then, but I could not begin to think of that neighborhood today, and I believe said apartment went for a then astonishing 60,000 when the house went condo. oh, the good old days---hand me some of that medication, would you?
As to Frognall, yes, totally not a cute story. We all know those Edmund Backhouses, and generally they just keep life interesting, but this is deeper (and surprisingly badly executed. I still CANNOT believe people were fooled for even a minute.)
We covet what we see everyday. The internet has made access to the visual images of the extraordinary an everyday event. I had no idea how much was out there until very recent. Check out tumbler for instance a visual dictionary of what ever your dream of choice. This ease of access can be disastrous for those who suffer from psych issues. I find this a sad story of someone who probably hates his very core.
Being at ease with who you are, whether in rags or riches, is the only way to be.
How is it harmless fun when nice people are drawn into that web of deceit, sympathizing with someone who's having a jolly old time posting images of his bogus brain scan.? Not that I was one of the gullible, I hasten to add. "Aunt Helen", filling in for Froggie whilst her darling nephew was wasting away, wrote in precisely the same manner as her nephew; which is to say, a rather pedestrian style much of the time. Imaginative though, we'll give it that! It all boils down to the spell cast by "wealth", good connections, posh addresses. etc and as Paul Gervaise de Bédée has implied, the overwhelming allure of the unattainable.
If not for the embezzlement case at the end, I would say it started off as an author's test: figuring out his characters for a play or novel. Well, that or a bored mental patient. Once again, an excellent post - fabulously entertaining! You, my dear sir, are our own fabulist!
What a truly wild and sad story! It's somewhere in between 6 Degrees of Separation and The Talented Mr. Ripley. I can't even imagine spending so much time and energy on such a desperate deception!
Toby, total accord, as usual
Stefan, too funny, and excellent point. The idea that he was trying a new literary genre briefly occurred to me also, but I quickly came around to just plain lying.
Quintessence, very amusing---in fact in email correspondence with friends about it, I took to referring to him as 'The Talented Mr. Rowe-Price', and I agree, I was stunned at how much time it must have taken to source and post those hundreds of photos, create those 27 profiles using other people's photos, and then write their daily dialogue.
Very sad.
Dilettante, you must learn never to be surprised by the depths people will sink to under the veil of anonymity. Overenthusiastic young things create glamorous new personae through Xanga, Livejournal, etc. all the time, and it gets dangerous quick. Such flights of fancy should be reserved for the private pages of a diary, if anywhere.
As you've said, part of what's so darkly amusing is just how slapdashed and transparent his fraud is. What on earth made him choose the Prices? They are (as you noted) from Baltimore, not Boston, and Rowe was Thomas Price Jr.'s (founder of the firm) middle name, the hyphen is a priceless bit of anglophilia. Also, the Price family's wealth is not nearly of sufficient vintage to warrant the "Brahmin" designation in any city, let alone Boston. Prout's Neck is not a large place, couldn't he have at least picked a house that's actually there? Also, using listing photos is just pure laziness. Couldn't he have strolled through some "good" neighborhood and snapped a picture of some obscure but noble looking house?
It's not embarassing that he lied, but that he did it so poorly.
"Yet I still gave him benefit of the doubt---I kid you not."
I think you were lucky; any kind of encounter, online or in person, with a fundamentally corrupt, socially unboundaried individual could turn out very badly. And still has some potential. That's why I hope one of your "dozen more details" includes some idea that his whereabouts has been discovered.
Dear DED-
I can't tell you how duped I feel. I really LIKED Aunt Helen. I thought for sure the poor man had perished of his illness. What an amazing piece of detecting on your part! Better than any screenplay currently being pitched in Hollywood, for sure. I should have wondered a bit longer over those scones - LOL. Thanks so much for the Christie-worthy unraveling. You are a marvel. Can't wait to see what happens next.
Cheekiness can be amusing; I think that perhaps is why you were so indulgent and gave him the benefit of the doubt. Of course, you quickly ascertained there were darker forces afoot.
I think my first clue that something was amiss would have been the use of facebook by a proper Brahmin dowager. Can't quite imagine that taking place. Second would have been the awfully convenient lymphoma.
What harm does it cause? I can't believe any right-thinking person even asking this question. Aside from his legal transgressions, he's made anyone aware of his story that much more jaded about accepting others at face value, and sadly, wasted years of his life working the fantasy instead of living the reality.
Thanks for sharing.
Weird story- and wonderfully so. It is a real cautionary tale for our age and should be read by anyone who, based upon a self posted profile and a few exchanged emails, decides to meet in the flesh someone with whom they have connected on the internet. (Yes, I'm talking to you gay guys).The internet makes it so easy to present whatever persona you want to to the outside world, and the reality can be frighteningly different. Frognall overplayed his hand- almost laughably so. Others can be more subltle and devious.
Oh, and I love Tangled Tide. Do you think if I order something for them from their Devonia registry (one of the best places on earth, by the way) they'll invite me to the wedding?
I put my hands up to commenting hastily this morning before 11 am. It's never a good time to try anything then. I hadn't really followed all the twists and turns of this story and not read the background stuff about his real criminality.
I still don't get it all but in the course of a conversation this evening, I did come round to the view that to establish a false identity in a social networking community is probably a breach of trust after all. I only once read FD's aunt's post and thought it sounded dodgy but never invested any interest in the guy. Which is why I failed to take any of this seriously - for which I apologise now.
Wow... what a fun read. And... great to see somebody else plays a bit of the private eye. I, too, love to track down some truth every so often. I've confronted 3 separate people on being somebody they say they are not... and two of them shut down their blogs.. the other began her 5th... with her 5th persona.. or perhaps his ... who knows for sure.
Lots of people in real life....and now bloggers and net surfers.. love to cosy up to those they think are of the "have" variety...or who are popular ..or who have achieved some type of fame or notoriety... who knows why, but fawn they do...
Even the hundreds if not thousands who follow Pioneer Woman.... acckk...gag me with a spoon ...
The other day I had a young gal tell me Yoko Ono is following her blog. Please.....
A lot of people are pretty gullible... believe all they read and most of what they see...even when they are cognizant of the magic of photoshop... sad...
A perfect world for molesters and other unsavoury characters... perfect in every way for them to develop their nefarious little schemes ...
Anonymous, well said
Flo: I think there's little to worry about, but point taken
Michelle: It's a pity isn't it? That he just wasn't himself. As to the whole thing, it has the quality of a play, and it's a pity it isn't, because as Aunt Helen shows, he's not bad at all at character delineation.
Magnus, it is all too bizarre, I agree.
Rosie, I never doubted you'd come around!
BumbleVee, all so true.
Topaz, thank you--just the point I'm trying to make
DED...This is I think my favorite post you have ever done. I don't think I know! It makes me laugh -any New Englander knows you garden in boots- and gag at the sheer dillusion of the man. It also makes you wonder about yourself, what kind of message am I sending out? In either case, I was literally biting my nails reading this and I sincerely regret not ever reading Frognald (WTF name is that?) Dibdin blog when it was in circulation.
As noted,I read the latest first- and should have read this first, a complaint of "the blogger" that I am vexed over. I have contended that I would have been a detective had I not gone the decorator route. I now know this is not just me. If you decide to open up a No. 1 Designers Detective Agency of Maine call Me, as a true devotee of Jessica Fletcher-I think Maine suits me. What I find equally intriguing with the "internets" ability to make up a Phony Life-it also provides the key to unraveling the truth. well done- DED (now I have a new meaning to the "DED"-Murder (s)HE wrote-one like to think now, but then hollywood always manages to over dramatize it a bit.- pgt
Amazing story. I saw it in the WSJ the other day and was interested because the Clark Rockefeller story transpired in Baltimore. It's all a bit creepy, but good on you for sussing it all out and being suspicious that things were not what they seemed.
There are a couple other bloggers about whom I have suspicions, all name and brand-name dropping and nothing of substance.
Well done, you!
What a story! The Talented Mr. Ripley, indeed. I remember going to Cragmere when it was a decorator showhouse years ago. Great detective work all along!!
@Daniel-Halifax: Thomas Frognall Dibdin (1776-1847) was an English bibliographer. Every rare book dealer has a copy of Dibdin on the shelf. I write for a rare book blog, and I was contacted by Mr "Rockefeller" about a book from my employer's inventory that was featured in a post. His identity may have been fake, but his knowledge of books was real. I never read much of his blog and I know nothing about New England, so I missed all the clues that gave him away to our master sleuth here. Well done, DED. I was glad to get the full story, and particularly glad he never ordered anything from me!
When I was a child, my mother would drag me to "Cragmere" each summer. The old home had then devolved to a gift shop selling colored glass. Each of the magnificent rooms on the ground floor was full of glass of a specific color. There was a blue room, a red room, a room full of glass the color of butterscotch. The intensity of the color is all I remember.
Anonymous, that's a fascinating detail---thanks! I love bits like that.
This sort of thing is interesting, and I completely understand how you were so inclined to give the benefit of the doubt to the man, since it is so outside of the norms of behavior we just have trouble believing anyone could indulge in such lies.
It reminds me of the one other fabulist I ran across in Washington years ago. Unlike Rowe Price, he looked and acted the part of a Harriman cousin (his purported background), with a few actual nice clubs and some in other cities made up. Unlike this fellow, he used his real name. He was in fact very charming, and had lots of friends in the transient social world of DC, which worked even with his sweet wife, who was also completely taken in. He even hit the court tennis social circuit at one point. Somehow he had a Society of the Cincinnati rosette and blazer batch, though it turned out he didn't belong to them either (I do a little ancestor worship, so looked that up when I got wind of it). He didn't do anyone much harm, but as I understand it, somebody at one of our mutual clubs got a little suspicious, checked out his resume, and found a lot of things that did not check out, from military service to schools. From there, it became known, he lost his job and the whole thing fell apart, including his marriage.
Yet with his charm, not all of his friends left him, and some years leater he died of a heart attack while visiting a couple down south, or at least that is what we were told.
I even went to the funeral. He was a tragic figure to be sure. At the service - at which no one said a thing about his imagined past - I ran into a fellow who said he'd known him since high school in upstate New York. I wanted to ask him then how the whole thing had happened, but I didn't. Just could not bring myself to speak of it at the funeral.
It was a sad thing, not least for his wife, but after all this time when some of the folks who knew him gather, we all wonder what the story behind the whole thing was.
This is so very interesting...if there is another 'lively take from another quarter', I hope that you will point us all in the right direction when it occurs! Thanks for the picture of the real Eric as well...
Anonymous 4:19
Hey Eric, is that you?
No. If I were going to fake a life, it would not be his ;)
Is Malcolm Boston another alias?
http://twitter.com/mdr221b
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Anonymous of January 25, 2011 11:56 AM: Your story is a fascinating and sad one---and sounds faintly familiar---I think word of it reached me before years ago.
Anonymooose: fascinating---these are Malcolm Rockefeller Tweets I gather?
Poor guy. I'd like to feel sorry for him, but recently it's also been revealed that he is also wanted on a second warrant, for parole violation.
The two twitter identities that look like him are these:
http://twitter.com/frognalldibdin
http://twitter.com/mdr221b
The latter is labeled "Malcolm Boston", but the initials are mdr (221b)
Malcolm D. Rockefeller I presume?
The tweeting stops in June/July.
The frognalldibdin post that is odd though:
Dinner with fellow bibliophiles in Greenwich Village and wishing Eric was here... http://yfrog.com/jozuqj 8:31 PM Jun 16th, 2010 via Twitter for iPhone
'Malcolm' must have taken over by then? Hmmm...must remind self that this is all not actually real...ha, ha...
Anon, those tweets are marvelous.
Of all the things in this story that alternately repel/fascinate me, the fact that he simultaneously kept two false identities going, and actually had real life people believing in both of them, when it was so BLOODY OBVIOUS that it was fake...
He was better at this kind of stuff in person. (he is most likable in person) Evidently he has become quite sloppy of late. Perhaps he always was, and now we are simply able to check his 'facts'. This brings back so many memories of his former escapades. All I can say is that 'if any of us knew the half...'
I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog concerning Malcolm, not so much for the sake of Malcolm but for your writing and telling of the story....you have a way of writing that I do not find often and totally love it....
I met Malcolm. also via the net by way of an introduction through mutual friends. We chatted a few times on line and a few times on the phone, this is when things went south. He went on to say he worked in Boston as Pediatric Oncologist, mostly at Mass General. He was thinking of buying the Gannet House in Cape Elizabeth because he needed a library and loved the one there....oh no...red flag...bells..alarm. I work at Mass general and told him I couldnt find his name on any employee listing, and the house in Cape Lizzy...well..I grew up across the street and went to High School with the kids who lived there...there was no library in that house and when I mentioned it, the conversation was quickly changed. The next time I heard from Malcolm, via email, he shared that he was no longer going to buy the house in Cape Eliz., as his cousin eric had died and he needed to get back into Manhattan as he "always found the city to be a good diversion." I must say ...for me, the story is sad, but like a house fire, car wreck or any horrific sight, I want to look away but cant. The story is somehow fascinating as much as it is pathetic. Oh I go on too much..i wrote this originally to simply say ...I loved the story you composed and your style of writing is beautiful. Thanks
I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog concerning Malcolm, not so much for the sake of Malcolm but for your writing and telling of the story....you have a way of writing that I do not find often and totally love it....
I met Malcolm. also via the net by way of an introduction through mutual friends. We chatted a few times on line and a few times on the phone, this is when things went south. He went on to say he worked in Boston as Pediatric Oncologist, mostly at Mass General. He was thinking of buying the Gannet House in Cape Elizabeth because he needed a library and loved the one there....oh no...red flag...bells..alarm. I work at Mass general and told him I couldnt find his name on any employee listing, and the house in Cape Lizzy...well..I grew up across the street and went to High School with the kids who lived there...there was no library in that house and when I mentioned it, the conversation was quickly changed. The next time I heard from Malcolm, via email, he shared that he was no longer going to buy the house in Cape Eliz., as his cousin Eric had died and he needed to get back into Manhattan as he "always found the city to be a good diversion." I must say ...for me, the story is sad, but like a house fire, car wreck or any horrific sight, I want to look away but cant. The story is somehow fascinating as much as it is pathetic. Oh I go on too much..i wrote this originally to simply say ...I loved the story you composed and your style of writing is beautiful. Thanks
Anonymous, thanks so much for this fascinating footnote to the ever odd and sad tale. This is the first instance I've heard in which he actually killed Eric off in the story, though it is where I thought he was headed just before the whole thing blew up.
I felt the same way as you---it was almost embarrassing to look at his--Eric's--facebook pages (and this before I knew that none of the pictures were even his), though I didn't realize at the time how completely criminal AND malicious the deception was---and it is strange indeed to contemplate him moving around to Paris, New York, London and other places when in fact he was often not that far from his keyboard in Maine.
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